Now Revealed – Discover why people fail in their relationships and cannot handle stress, anxiety, anger, lack self confidence and more.

I had intended to sell the following materials as an ebook priced around about $40. But then I decided that it is better if I distributed it as free content on my site as it would benefit people who could not afford it or otherwise did not make the purchase. It would be better for me – I decided –if I really established my credentials as an expert and developed a relationship with you – the visitor to my site. The money would come later – as a by-product in the form of increased traffic to my site.

The rest of this page lists down the benefits of your going through the materials and the changes you can expect to see in your life.

What is true happiness?

I have found the answer to this question in Eastern Philosophy and I encourage you to do so as well.

In today’s materialistic culture one can easily mistake happiness as being found in money, having lots of friends, a beautiful wife (or girlfriend, or a successful and charismatic husband), enjoying the good things of life, a flashy car, a large house or any number of such signs of success. We chase after some or all of these, never finding lasting happiness, and before we know it half our life is gone in this frenzied search.

The further you read you will begin to understand that you have a choice. You are not compelled to live this way. You can be free from the inside, free to really live to the full.

The Buddha was once asked to explain true happiness. He replied-

When faced with the ups and downs of life, Still the mind remains unshaken, Not lamenting, not generating defilements, always feeling secure, This is the greatest happiness.

Can you picture yourself like this? Just for a moment?

This verse contains – in my view – the essence of living wisely. And my ebook will show you also how to attain this state of mind.

Rare thinking people like you already know that life is transient and unsatisfactory. What if you could learn to be happy at most times while living in this hugely imperfect world? This is what you will learn in this ebook.

Little by little you will become free to live and be happy.

OK, you are probably wondering what makes me qualified to write about this subject. Let me tell you about myself and my life and you can judge for yourself.

I am not a spiritual guru, or a healer or a master in yoga or a clairvoyant. I have not had a mystical experience although I hope to have one some day. My education has not been in philosophy and meditation but in finance (I am a qualified Chartered Accountant). However I have used the teachings - that I will be showing you - in my own life and I have seen the benefits for myself. These methods work – they have been demonstrated in my own life.

As a child and adolescent I was lacking in confidence. I wanted friends and to be popular and socially poised. I was also a very repressed young man and used to block myself from feeling and remembering unpleasant feelings and memories. I was quite unable to think for myself and depended upon my books and opinions of others on how to conduct my life.

My search for answers to my problems started more than 20 years ago. I was a voracious reader but my reading did me more harm than good. I read many American self help books. But all my reading served only to confuse my mind further. I was unable to think for myself because of my neurosis and repressions. I was never at peace with myself – always judging and condemning. Also I suffered a certain amount of persecution by my family and community. In Indian society you are expected to conform. Anyone who does not do so – and who suffers handicaps as I did – is made the target of ridicule and becomes more or less a social outcast.

Fast forward to my situation now – 20 years later. I am now well adjusted with my family and community. I have become a lot more accepting of myself and others. I still do not have as much money or as many friends as I would like but their absence does not bother me much. I have a long way to go before I reach the state of mind that the Buddha spoke of but I have started the journey. I now have direction in my life and I can help you find direction in yours.

And it has been Eastern Philosophy and its scientific and rational approach to personal and spiritual growth that has given me this direction. Eastern Philosophy has helped me individually and – if you give it the chance – it can help you.

Wouldn’t it be amazing if you could be truly happy, the way the Buddha wanted for you?

The world situation is such today that spiritual growth is a necessity and not a luxury. The world is faced with the threat of terrorism, the so called clash of civilizations and is also sitting on a stockpile of nuclear weapons that are enough to destroy all life on this planet. We need to master our passions and decide wisely to use our scientific inventions to the benefit of all life on this planet. Also mindless consumerism is rapidly depleting the resources of our beautiful planet. This transformation needs to take place on a mass scale but spiritual growth can only happen individually – one person at a time.

Enough talk about me. This letter is about you, about how you can expect to benefit. The ebook contains the gist of my reading and thinking over the past 20 years.

Here is just small portion of the benefits you will gain:

Deal with Stress

• You will learn to accept the fact that you are stressed and not beat up on yourself because of it.
  
• Have the strength and fortitude to accept the loss that you are fearing
  
• Have the strength of a warrior who pushes on towards his goals regardless of obstacles or defeats
  
• Not be subject to the sense of compulsion. You will act and work through the stress not because you have to but because you want to.
  
• Get a sense of perspective both on your life and your stressful situation. You will give it only so much importance as it deserves.
  
• Enjoy life in your moments of rest without obsessing about your work.

Have better relationships

• Have the strength to walk away from a bad relationship.
  
• Learn to stand up for your rights in any relationship in a straightforward and non-threatening manner.
  
• Sun Tzu said that Humanity and Justice are the principles on which to govern a state. Learn to master your passions and govern with Humanity and Justice if you are in a position of authority.
  
• Gain self-confidence and lose your inhibitions so that you gain social poise and skills. This will attract the right man or woman into your life.
  
• Learn to be happy and self-sufficient. When you can live independently and do not need to exploit or manipulate others to fulfill your needs you will attract similar people into your life and enjoy better relationships.

Self Confidence and Self Love

• Learn to accept yourself – no matter how you behave, what you think, what you achieve or don’t achieve. I will show you the exact line of reasoning that will enable you to let go of false judgments and opinions of yourself.
  
• Once you accept yourself you leave yourself open to the possibility of change. It is easier to change – indeed it is required for you to first accept yourself and give your negative impulses room to play themselves out. Only then do you have room to grow.
  
• You will become self-sufficient and independent through self-acceptance. This will attract similar independent people into your life.
  
• You will become more poised and confident socially.
  
• Having let go of false judgments and opinions of yourself you will be more at peace with yourself.
  
• Accepting and loving yourself will enable you to accept, empathize with and understand others. This will help your interpersonal relationships.
  
• Your inner peace and happiness will positively impact all areas of your life. Your career, your relationships, your family life, all these and more will be benefited.

Dealing with anger

• A moment of anger can cost you a job, a relationship, a prized contract or cause a traffic accident. We all need to learn how to deal with it constructively – neither unthinkingly repressing nor expressing it.
  
• Learn how to take care of your anger mindfully. Deal with the pain constructively and grow.
  
• Some of us are in the habit of reacting with hostility and rage in many situations that they dislike. This causes havoc in their relationships, their career and life in general. Learn how to reverse this life long habit.
  
• Learn how our diet affects our disposition and what we can do about it.
  
• Learn to release long term resentments and grudges that may be poisoning your close relationships.
  
• Release and out grow petty resentments and frictions in your relationships.
  
• Learn to communicate effectively and in a non-threatening manner with your loved ones that solves the problem you are facing rather than reacting with anger.
  
• Learn the secret that George Gurdieff – and enlightened master – called the biggest lesson of his life.

Death and loss of loved ones.

• Learn how pondering over death can unlock the mystery of life. In the Buddhist tradition, all newly ordained monks are sent to a cemetery for many months to ponder over death. Understand the perspective on life that develops through such a practice.
  
• Let go of the fear of death. Learn a Buddhist mediation that will enable you to do so.
  
• Learn how to deal with and support the trauma of dying loved ones. Cope with their panic, fear, rage, regrets and other strong feeling that will arise in them at those times. Make their passage from this world as easy and peaceful as possible.
  
• Be at peace with the prospect of your own passing. If you are – or know of someone who is – aged or facing a life threatening illness learn to cope with the trauma and the strong feelings that will arise.
  
• Deal constructively with your own strong feelings of sadness, guilt, and regret at the passing away of a loved one.
  
• Face up to the fear of death bravely. The present culture in many westernized countries idolizes youth and tries to brush old age and death under the carpet. It ignores these necessary aspects of life completely. This lead to a mindless consumerism because we are not at peace with ourselves or the thought of our passing. Face these fears and transform your life.
  
• Building Resolve.

The entire book is easy to read and follow and understand.

Most of these benefits are beyond price.

For example poise and self confidence. It will help you in your career so I suppose you could put a price to this aspect of it. But it will also help your relationships, it may help attract the right man or woman into your life. Most of all it will enable you to be at peace with yourself at most times and in most situations.

What price can anybody put on that?

Take your time, visit these pages often, take printouts if required, really absorb the material. It will transform your life as it has mine. That is my guarantee to you.

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